Originally Posted by marcopit (Post 7408871)

Thanks volcano for you advise/comment,

both i do feel sad because financially i cant provide them. if im not wrong avg local earning abt $120-150. I prepare to set aside abt $600 monthly for her parents. If her parents insist of that amount $1500, i confirm will become the ''Flash':p

Originally Posted by marcopit (Post 7408539)

Thanks Golden question for your advise, she choose No.3, that is why im flying to meet her parents next week.

Originally Posted by Golden question (Post 7408560)

Are u sure:eek:

Bro,i worry for u leh:D

Originally Posted by Golden question (Post 7409155)

Dont because of sad and create a heavy burden for u,my friend.
u mention u earn around 2.5k.U think u can manage to give her $600?U still have 150k bank debt,transport,eat,house and etc also need money.

How can u support her?Did u ever think of if u marry her,she cannot work in sg or find a decent job?Yes u can say u support $600 for her parents so she no need to work but let me tell u something,almost all viet spouse i know want to come out work even though husband is supporting her vietnam side.
i agree, viet girls even married still would want to come out and work. But what kind of decent job can a viet woman work in Sing ?
And do u know her enough just for few months?If u dont know her enough,must at least learn about their culture first,why rush into it?

Originally Posted by Golden question (Post 7409209)

To me if she open mouth 1.5k,i already 'flash' already until cannot see my soul but u still can go see her parents,dont wish to pour 'cold water' on u cos i think with your age,u are already mature enough to get what we mean.

Originally Posted by marcopit (Post 7406747)

Hi All Samster,

im totally lost, maybe i kanna KT oready. I wanna purpose to my gf next month when i go HCM, i just know her for abt 3mths, she work in KTV in sg abt 4mths, 3rd time here in sg.

Originally Posted by marcopit (Post 7408539)

Thanks Golden question for your advise, she choose No.3, that is why im flying to meet her parents next week.

Originally Posted by marcopit (Post 7408871)

I prepare to set aside abt $600 monthly for her parents. If her parents insist of that amount $1500, i confirm will become the ''Flash':p

Originally Posted by jklpoi (Post 7405140)

I hate it when people look down on me. I had it enough with people looking down on me. Think about what you are writing before you post, Please.

Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 7410128)

since you kana KT (me), i got abit interested and read thru your post.

IMHO, this vb, gf of yours is making use of you as a ticket to come sillypore to work. Furthermore, you provide free lodging. On her next trip here, she will want you to help by being her guarantor to bring her into Sillypore... that is why you no money also nevermind. She just need someone to help her in as she is already here 3rd time.

i would say, you can go vietnam to tour and look see with an open heart. don't commit $$$ to her 1st. :)

Originally Posted by marcopit (Post 7410178)

Thanks Golden question, Superhuman, Zion1989 & Kangtuo,

thanks for all your advise/comments & concern, im very glad that we able to share experience/information here. I will post my outcome ASAP once im back.

As on now i yet to commit any money on her :p

Originally Posted by zion1989 (Post 7410743)

You are welcome, but dun really set too high hope. Because i having similar situation as you. I meeting the mom in nov, but married still far. I also know my girl in KTV as WL but was in viet . Haha i also think i kena KT, but their culture really put parents as top priority, so if there is no bargain. Then high chance it all over. All the best for your coming trip

Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 7402959)

I can see that you don't understand how WL think... :D

Originally Posted by jackbl (Post 7402964)

Shd be he dun understand how vietnamese think :D

Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 7403035)

where can find job for uneducated and unskilled vb which can get up to $1500 per month?
the most i know is $800 in service line like beer lady and in pub.

Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 7403849)

i will never let my bx work as WL also.... not because i don't want her to suffer (to vb, working as WL is just another job.. not suffering at all)

truthfully its all about face value... :)

Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 7403849)

just like what my bx told me last time... i go out play as long as not caught and seen or play with her friends its ok liao. its her face value.. :)

Originally Posted by jf66312 (Post 7411082)

why all kana KT??? shld be KC? :confused:

bro KT - seems alot ppl kana from you ...hjhjh... :p

Originally Posted by vietboy (Post 7411253)

Bro, seriously, u need to step out of yur small cicle of WLs. Who tell u uneducated, unskilled cannot find job of $1000 - $1500? My friend's wife previously working as an assistant at a zi char stall n her pay is $1200, my wife friend 1st job is $1500 n my wife last job is $1100. All these are vietnamese, uneducated n unskilled. :)

Originally Posted by naemlo (Post 7406984)

Your situation almost the same as jklpoi, u guys should exchange contact to exchange pointers.