VBs all one pattern only.
Once you knew one vb well enough, you see a repeated pattern in other vbs.
All the troubles they have....
All the shit their in.....
All the sad cock and bull story......
You hear from one, you hear from 99.9% of all VBs.
However the best part is to find that 0.1% that are truly in love with you and undemanding. If you try to catch your love of your lifetime, at least try to understand how deep the rabbit hole is.