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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by MIFAcafe View Post
VB is not for faint hearted person. Relationship with VB can be a roller coaster ride, and can be more volatile than the stock market and forex market combined.

Most girls I met had cry, 90% tell you the need money. (Who don't?) 99% have a strong character regardless of their age; as I never met a weak vb yet.

I hate to use the word "game"..... But really a relationship with a vb is a game of chess. You can never really know what is in their mind as their lie will always hide the truth.

Viet man ignore their VB, and yet the vb is so loving. Hence H88 tell me to behave like a Viet..... Ignore them. Do what I like and don't bother with what the vb do. Don't ask, they will say what they want and do what they want to do.

If they cross the line, give them the nasty look and don't talk to her.

All said and done, it is hard to do. As Singapore men are caring and loving toward girls. Hardly heard a Sinkee hit a girl. But in VN, hitting and fighting is everywhere.

My trip in August 2014, H88 , D2 and me are sitting at cafe looking at husband and wife fighting and chasing around for about 1-2 hours. They fight openly on the street they live in. Whole family involve..... Daughter...son.....dog.....(not joking)
The dog was shaking in fear while the vb hug the dog. The vb is holding 2 stones in her hand, after throwing everything at his ox.......now that is really a loving couple.

So think again.....can you handle the truth....can you handle a vb.

I think I need another 3-4 years of training....... And yet some brother think after a few meet up is judgement day.
All those newbie should learn from u, no matter how many years of cheoging with different woman from different country, every girl culture and thinking is always different, u can be very good at prc or thai wl or girl, it does not mean u are equally good at viet, u only around 1 year with viet but I can see u learn a lot and willing to step back, observe and listen to senior bro who have vast experience in viet scene, u deserve my respect