[blackmumba]

Originally Posted by etsys

I will only loan if I have money I don't need

if you loan and she no job then forget it

make up story like you are jobless or severe pay cut

if she bluffing she will wait for the next grandpa to die when you have money ...

or ask her detail and say you can buy ticket

my 2 cents, don't be carrot head to give her Money so she can fun with another guy

Been there, done that.

Agree with etsys bro. Try this one as well. Low in money now due to paying back loans but for you I'll try my best ... OR like whay etsys bro said, help to pay for the ticket and obtain all details... trust me she'll either back off or say it is better with cash because can get better deals for ticketing by some "friend" ... and if she says that $500 is all she needs. Then say, I think I may have a better contact who runs a travel agency, I call him now and see how much.. hehe she'll back off again.