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Originally Posted by hoian
Is it possible to erase all the years of bonking/cheonging by doing a bit of charity? Also by participation in a sex forum (indirectly supporting bonking activities)... does that not also lead to bad merits?
Just asking out of curiosity and wondering how this karma thing works. U may choose not to answer if it displeases u.
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Definitely no malice...let me answer you base on what I understand about karma...
we are all human beings and who as human dun made mistakes...depends on the mistakes one human made in the past or previous life...of course we cannot control our previous life but can control current life...
participation in sex forum is not bad karma because here you dun do bad things unless you purposely out to hurt others...SBF has been made in such you can do good deeds...is no longer just all about sex...but of course the karma is you may get lustful and do bad things...only Buddhism shall teach you to abstain from all the sex thingy...hey, i am doing NS for SBF leh...
if a person has done some bad things in the past or previous life...then more so he should try to do good deeds...charity is just one way to do good deeds...there are many other ways that dun need to involve money...example bring an anonymous old lady across the street if that is a busy street...or volunteer your time to help in old folks home...
fortunately you can accumulate enough good karma to over-ride the bad karma but all depends the type of bad deeds or accumulated bad karma...&&
help out your viet gf or relatives that you are involved is not doing good deeds...so only if you have no obligations helping to anonymous ppl then can consider good deeds and thus good karma...&&
Note - the above is purely IMHO...not to upset anyone...pls skip if you dun like to read...^^