Re: Marriage First or Career First?
TS, manage your social skills first. You sound like an introvert so make more friends of both sexes so you can understand females more and they can be difficult. Otherwise, you'll end up with a divorce if u jump into marriage blind.
Women are not attracted to shy guys because they look for security which means confidence without attitude. Money is secondary and dump those who look up to you for money because they will never be satisfied by your wealth and often flee during troubles.
I encourage pre-marital sex because this will deal with both expectations & go a long way, you will be surprised that some women dump men because of their "short-comings"! So, it's not always the men doing the selection now.
Just chat her up and know her better cos she may not be the one even if there's sparks flying.
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Men give love for sex & women offer sex for love.
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