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Originally Posted by warbird

I like to share an email from a guru.

Bang more women by rejecting them...

In the past couple of years the quantity of girls I sleep with has
crept up. This is due to many reasons I'm sure, but during that
same time period I notice that I'm "rejecting" a lot more girls. By
that I mean I walk away when I find out that she isn't close to
what I want. I may be talking to her and the light from her cell
phone screen reveals some acne. Or I realize she doesn't have a fun
vibe. Or she's socially awkward. Or her black dress was hiding a
pancake ass. Or she's way too witty (at the expense of being sexy).
When one of these things happen, I politely end the conversation.
No hard feelings.

There was a time I used to keep these interactions going because,
ultimately, the girl was bangable---or else I wouldn't have
approached her---and I was hungry for sex, since I didn't get it as
often. But I rarely did bang those girls. It would stall at the
number or makeout stage. Why is that I'm going full court press on
far fewer girls today, but getting a lot more bangs in shorter
amounts of time? Two reasons:

1. I free up more time for the girls I better connect with. Talking
to a girl you're not crazy about means you won't spit your best
game. And without your best game the odds you'll bang her, assuming
she's not throwing herself on you, is extremely low. It's futile to
force the attraction if you don't feel it around the 5-10 minute
mark. In these cases you'll only get a number.

Time is crucial. I still run most of my game at night during the
weekends and each night has, at most, four hours of prime game
time. If I spend ninety minutes on these mediocre interactions,
I've given up 38% of my night for nothing. Plus my energy will be
lower for the better prospects I may encounter later.

If you're a game newbie then grinding it out can be valuable to
getting your social skills up to speed, but it's very possible that
talking to the boring chick with the lame sense of humor will cost
you for that entire night. It's too risky to exchange an extra word
with a girl that I know deep down is someone who won't get me
excited. That time is better spent maintaining your state with your
boys instead.

2. It subconsciously increases your value. When you pass on enough
girls, you start to believe you're the man. Of course with my
experiences I think I'm a pimp, and that shines through with my
body language and tone, without me having to think about it.

Girls pick up on things that you cannot see, hear, or feel (think
of them as a mutant species that can sense more than three
dimensions of space). Luckily for us, we don't have to consciously
learn how to subcommunicate these positive traits---we pick up on
them in time. This is how I can meet a guy and within about 15
seconds know if he's good with women or not (a side effect of my
heavy involvement with the game has given me the female ability to
screen men). Now imagine what type of vibe a guy who tries to bang
anything he talks to puts out. You better believe that girls can
pick up on that.

For me there has to be something in those first 10 minutes that
tells me there's something special going on. There has to be humor
and laughing, meaningful questions, flirty looks, and a magnetism
simmering underneath the surface. My energy and time are the two
most important things I have, and when I begin to value it yourself
by passing on mediocre chicks, I get more. In the end it's so much
easier to bang a cool chick. Don't waste your time on those who
aren't.



Any comments?

Cheers!
Bro WB

Bro WB

Very nice thread and also nice post.

I am not sure what I was reading and after reading 3 times then I started understanding what the guru wanted to guide us.

Important point was to reject many gals but ending up banging more gals after initial rejections. Spend time connecting with gals you reject but keen to bang them. Gals are mutant beings and pick up things we cannot see. It subconsciously increases your value. When you pass on enough girls, you start to believe you're the man.

All these was discussed in your earlier posts butt in various stages of the game.

Hope you have a enjoyable long weekend and Happy CNY.

Wish all readers Gong Xi Fa Cai too.

Huat ah!!