as my nick suggests, I'm a newbie, but your following passage holds very true:
"To be attractive to a chio SYT, a man must play hard to get. But not so hard as to be out of reach n push her too far away. Additionally, he must like her a bit less than she likes him. Never upset that delicate balance n she will be his forever. If at anytime he begins to like /love her much more than she likes/loves him, he will lose her, eventually. It's ineluctable."
Then again I will venture to raise the validity of above statement to all women you're attracted to, since I prefer MILFs to SYTs
A few constants in every relationship: know your weaknesses, play to your strengths. Understand the counterparty. Most importantly, make them laugh, keep them happy, they will soon realize what's more important than money. Of course I say this because all of them have other people pumping petrol. My advantages are the following:
1) because of my youth I play the character of a poor, young upstart which is believable and acceptable to them. I'm not rich but I'm better off than they realize
2) I drop subtle hints of my glorious track record (which feeds itself as the experiences grow). This works the same way women are attracted to married men: endorsement.
3) I speak to them evenly, never jumping to generalizations and sweeping statements, which accommodate their dignity and self respect issues
4) I don't force them to spend time with me by way of cash. In my experience this is by far the worst thing to do.
5) I am not alpha, and am in no hurry to add to the pool. 随遇而安. Women hate nonchalance.
Of course every strength can turn into a weakness, it all depends on what the woman in question is looking for and prefers. The most important thing is to learn to switch my modes when facing different profiles. Some people say this is not being true to yourself, but 1) I have done worse things to get a pussy 2) we have different sides to ourselves.
My hit rate is not high and I'm still learning. But I have been told many occasions that I'd make a good gigolo, which I take as a compliment. Maybe time for career switch!