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Originally Posted by Johndick
With all due respect bro,it's high time we stop using "chemistry" to let off these MLs when it's pertaining BASIC service level. Let's not forget they are in the SERVICE line and we freaking pay a hefty sum for the services.
If you go to a restaurant and eat an expensive meal and you give some feedback (NOT CRITICISM) to the chef yet his reply to you is
"Not happy with the meal feel free to go other restaurants next time"
Will you tell yourself is because the chef has a lack of chemistry with you and you feel nothing? And you are a regular patron somemore. Likely most people will share the not so pleasant experience on social media, just to let others know this chef is capable of such unprofessional behavior.
That is exactly my purpose, not to ruin anyone ricebowl but to let other bros know so that they can manage their expectations or decide if they want to spend their hard earn $$ on a ML capable of this type of behavior.
"Chemistry" to determine the off menu items etc, fine, I can understand. But basic service level including what a service provider should / should not be saying to customers? That has NOTHING to do with chemistry imho.
We really ought to stop using this "chemistry" excuse to give too many ML a free pass. They are SERVICE PROVIDERS, so they should freaking make sure they meet basic service standards, i don't care if they are hot property, APs or whatever.
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I can’t disagree with you on this for sure, the only thing is that there might be a difference between individuals on what is considered “basic service level”
For some, they expect that with the amount paid, we should get a good massage, full 60mins of their time in skin contact with the ML, focus only on him no messages allowed (which means no one handed massage), allow kissing allow full roaming etc, regardless whether some of these were mentioned on their ad or not. Oh and the girl must talk sweetly to him every single time like a mistress or girlfriend fawning on you. Some even want the ML to continue to hug you after the deed is done until time is out.
On the other hand, there are others who just expects good roaming signals (but ok without full access), decent massage, occasional messaging is fine, sometimes leaving 10mins before is ok (cos also don’t want to bump into other ppl), AS LONG AS they enjoyed the session with her. And that could mean of cos a SYT talking nicely to you, or some may actually like to talk shit and teasing with a fiery ML. That is the part of what we call chemistry.
Of cos some may think the second group is just stupid and shortchanging themselves allowing the ML to slack on you. But as long as you leave happy, that works for you. If you have a basic level and she doesn’t fit it, the best way is either to communicate with the ML and say u expect this and that, or just leave and no RTM. Everyone has their own expectations and their own 底线 just some higher some lower.