Good morning to Bro WB
What a lovely thread here and kudos to you.
A great post below about confidence.
Anyway I just got back from my business trip... and went out with one of my girl who I know in singapore and is working there. Free escort services hehe, but this time i ask a really a direct question to her why she choose to go out with me when actually another guy specifically came from somewhere abroad just to look for her. (nearly got into an incident with that guy). Is it because I got money.
The next moment she cried and say "No!!! if money i can earn myself don't need you and if I want money I would have ask you to pay me before you come." Then suddenly the next few days she insist on paying for dinner and transport. I was kinda shock. I spend the whole 3 nights with her and she even skip 2 days work to be with me. This was kinda of an experience for me she even told me she want me to be her boyfriend and she don't mind me having other girls... but maximum 3 lol... she will be definately one of the few girls which I will keep.
Hope to share more if time permits.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Good morning!
Many bros hv reiterated their belief that confidence is very important in attracting the opposite sex.
You're very attractive because you're very confident. Period.
What is real confidence in a man?
Don't confuse it w/ arrogant, boastful, aggressive n domineering behaviour which is the antithesis of confidence. Such beta behaviour is indicative of insecurity n inferiority complex at the subconscious level, in the more primitive brain. It's a severe defect n deficiency the conscious brain is painfully aware of n is desperately trying to hide hahaha...such a man has fears, can't sleep if he loses half his fortune n feels dejected n frustrated if his favourite woman leaves him...
Here is a MAN w/ real confidence:
'If' by Rudyard Kipling
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master,
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
We should all aspire to become such a MAN.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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