I kind of believe in 随缘, if this ML makes me feel comfortable when I visit then I will just visit more times. Comfort whether is companionship or skills. Naturally you understand about someone more when you interact more, which could give a feel good feeling.
So naturally each of us will have certain banes, and commercial GFE will send goosebumps chills all over the wrong way.
Understanding the context of "friend" with a ML is important. If you really develop to a degree of familiarity, you got to realize that they will never take you as a normal friend. Reason? Simple normal friends don't sexually caress or fuck each other.
My two cents.
