[repairman]

Would just like to share a recent experience. A few months back on Wechat, added this lady (She is a PRC milf in her 30s with a son in school, and separated from her husband) and she added me back. So during that time was already reading this forum and was just very direct with her in telling that I wish to have sex with her. She suggested that we meet first to see if we are compatible and also asked for my height. During the first meeting we just chat normally for about an hour, and after that even though I was nervous, I just said that let's go to the hotel, which was nearby. That was where we had our first session. About a week later, I told her that I wanted to do again and will book a hotel room and wait for her. Than we had our second session. The actual sex session lasted about 30 minutes each. She did message to say I was quite 猛, and probably her 小妹妹有待开发.

But slowly afterwards, she started to not reply my Wechat messages (well she just started her new job and said she was very tired). I did manage to try video call once. Than I kept messaging her as I missed her quite badly (she was quite tight and busty) Somehow I knew I was starting to be needy. She did tell me she will contact me when she has adjusted to her work. However I think I still did not heed bro WB advice that we MEN are the PRIZE. I video-ed her again today on Wechat and she rejected it along with previous messages. Than when I tried a 2nd time I realised she has added me to the blocked list (aka 拉黑). With some mixed emotions (confused, sad, anger) I deleted her contact from my list.

I believe there are a few learning points from my failed experience I can think of:

1. Knowing what I want to get out of this relationship which was quite blurry and putting my emotions into it though I just wanted sex (I think I wanted sex and also to KC her, but failed big time)

2. Not being needy and giving her space. Telling myself that I am the PRIZE and she should be the one finding me instead (This is really harder than it sounds)

3. Not being overly sensitive to her actions or inaction and react accordingly (In my case would be not contacting her and giving her space since she already mentioned it)

Hope other bros can also advice accordingly and of course learn from my experience.

PS: Pardon my long post

Cheers
repairman