Good afternoon to all samsters,
My special thanks to the following bros for such excellent n insightful posts.
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Originally Posted by junior_cannibal
indeed. Human always have the tenancy to become possessive and obsessive, especially when feeling insecure in a relationship. Be it between lovers, parents and children, or even between BFF.
Once that happens, things become very complicated.
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Yes, bro.
Human relationships are always very complicated, even between identical conjoint twins.
One reason is that most humans are selfish, insecure, jealous, fearful, and greedy.
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Originally Posted by starbucks
Nice sharing. Care to share examples of leaving them slowly and gently? Reduce frequency of communication and meet ups till it comes natural for them to let go? Would you meet up once a while or just let it die off?
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Bro,
Yes, let it die off. Also, read bro entering's posts below.
It largely depends on the type of relationship. A legal marriage with young children would be the hardest to break up and a causal FB would be the easiest and all the others in between.
A note on RS with WLs and FLs. This should be among the easiest to part company. But, sometimes, the client or, extremely infrequently, the WL herself becomes attached emotionally n sexually. It's usually unrequited love. It can be tragic for the client.
The situation is very different if a man and his mistress aka lao po have been together for over a year. Could be a dangerous situation for the man if he wants to dump the girl who is still addicted to him and, especially if she is a local. Much less troublesome if she is a foreigner. I have done that many times. I always leave them better than when I met them.
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Originally Posted by SBMEDSUP
Times up just ignore all calls and blocked social apps etc.
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Yeah, just go cold turkey.
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Originally Posted by damong777
Going through a relationship at this moment. Close to 1 year already. Alot of up and down.
Now come to realise that sometimes would have to let the gal know there are others available if she do not treasure the relationship. Some gals just take one kindness for granted.
At a cross road now, have a younger nicer gal appear. Trying to make mind on how I should keep now. After 14/7 decision time.
A cool down period with gal a now. And see how gal b is before big decision.
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Bro, tks for sharing.
Don't think too much. Why can't you keep both the old girl and the younger nicer girl? I often do that.
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Originally Posted by entering
I would just keep both a secret from each other. In fact if I've 20, all 20 won't know they have any competition at all. They'll all think it's exclusive.
This will help you keep your options always open especially if you've 100s in your Black book, you won't scared no girl.
Also marrying, dating, sex are 3 different things. They need not be in the same person. And each need not be 1 person (except that marrying you need to watch the law, if you're already legally married in sg).
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Tks, bro.
A man is always the prize n should never have a scarcity mindset.
Yes, legal marriage, dating, and sex are very different. It's very difficult for a man to find a girl who could fulfill all his needs.
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Originally Posted by entering
Yes reduce frequency of communication.
Reduce meet ups.
Let it die off.
If you're already married or in a committed relationship, breaking off from the other girl and especially if she is very attached to you, is dangerous cuz she may turn around to tell your spouse or girlfriend.
So better to let it die a "natural death".
Also I've many cases as recent as last week where those that died a natural death I suddenly miss them (mostly for fucks), and re text them back. Usually about 70% will respond positively cuz you didn't indicate a break. They most likely may miss you too.
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Bro, very good advice.
Cheers!
Bro WB