Great to hear that, the needy vibe has been cleansed. Women can sense if a man is needy/ desperate. Being relaxed, fun, confident and at ease is very attractive!
Having $ is just a multiplier, a man can be rich but still be needy. And that’s when he ends up attracting gold diggers.
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Originally Posted by leakypipes
Only now that I am middle-aged, that this thread begins to make more sense.
I have had occasional successes in my 30s, but my hit rate in the last two years went up considerably - despite COVID.
What changed? Well, I went through some personal shit, but came out of it learning to care less what other people think about me. And focussed on improving myself. I have always been confident, but I also had a deeply insecure side and always look for validation from others.
Now, the only validation I want is from myself. And I am not interested in impressing others, least of all another woman, no matter how attractive they are.
Because based on the last two years alone, I am confident that if I want you, I will get you.
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