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Originally Posted by EtherC
Great to hear that, the needy vibe has been cleansed. Women can sense if a man is needy/ desperate. Being relaxed, fun, confident and at ease is very attractive!
Having $ is just a multiplier, a man can be rich but still be needy. And that’s when he ends up attracting gold diggers.
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Very true. Frankly, i feel my 30s success is all because of material. I had $ to spare. Ok la i still got $ to spare but what's the point?
Nowadays, i almost feel like I'm living the fantasy i had in my 20s and 30s - and you're right, removing the needy vibe is vital! Must maintain that power dynamic. A desperate man will always grasp at straws. A confident man chooses his own path in all things.
And to think, it took COVID to help me find that confidence. It was always there - i just didn't believe in myself.