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Originally Posted by N E R O
Agree ... if bitten, should not c ry foul, by now everybody should have read or heard about these stories liao , so cant blame anyone but oneself if still wanna take the risk, then get fleeced ...
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at the end of the day, those who wish to give, should also know his own limitations. its a habit for many to boast of how much they take home... painting a fantastic dream come true facade to the gals. so naturally, raising her expectations. bt when comes to the crunch, some resort to loans of sorts to finance the "investment"... n eventually getting shredded like waste paper n incinerated as trash.
the gal is here for a reason, she has to do wat she has to do, while we're just by-standers who occasionally patronize her. perhaps there's a handful that extend their supportive arms to ease her burden, bt at own discretion/risk. if wanna give, give with a willing heart. if nt, just shut up n let her do her thing. no need to b upset that she's nt rendering u the attention due, cos its a very pragmatic circumstance.
if u're nt the 1 putting bacon on the table for her entire household, she has to look for the bacon herself.