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Old 12-11-2008, 12:53 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

Hi bro, I can understand you still giddy over the moto-ride. I have tried it b4. So dun mind I help you out to add in the paragraph and some words to simplify the story. Story still intact.

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Originally Posted by hjy_19 View Post
hi everybody !!

just come back from vietnam last week, it was totally different from singapore. Went to my gf hometown and it took 6hrs to reach angiang Long Xuyên City. thought can take bus there in the end took taxi and wasted $160. Damn this is the most expensive taxi i ever took. At 1st thought of roam around with her so just go c c look look c how 1st whether she got blur me or not?

1st day reach there just hang around, 2nd day her parent took me to seaside and I thought 1 hr can reach who knows early in the morning 4plus need wake up liao travel on motorcycle until afternoon still havent reach.
I sat until bottom pain. But luckily i switch with my gf and she ride later i ride reach there halfway go drink coffee then find out we r on the wrong track. So we had to travel back to another way, then around 3plus then arrive to swim 4 a while then went back. Wat the hell travel so far swim a while.

On the way back still raining somemore their helmat no visor can imagine raining falling on ur face is pain loh, until at night bottom continue pain somemore tire punture.
wat koh already so late in the night where to find ppl to change tire? lucky we travel around 20mins and reached a place where can drink coffee beside had a tire shop but had to change ourself. On the home still had to buy crab 4her brother, n shit their seafood is almost the same price as spore loh.

3rd day just sleep until total cannot sleep wake up eat the crab n few hrs her uncle say wan drink then pay again 4 the beer. evening went to her aunt hse sleep then morning took minibus to ho chi minh reach evening perpare take back spore.
1.vietnam many mosquite
2.seafood expensive,food not that accept by our taste
3.when u go there perpare to pay n pay,spent $500 but get nothing at night sleep by urself unless u r marry with her their thinking is oli couple can sleep together.

NOW MY QUESTION 4 EVERYONE??
at 1st thought everything will be very simple just pay their debt then marry,who know now lot of problem i can think of,
1st need send $ 4 her 2 brother study in ho chi minh $500 every mth,
2nd need settle her mother debt for their house around $9k,
3rd if arrange her come back need perpare $ again 4 her to buy ticket back vietnam
4th if after rom can stay 4 3 or 6 mth, after tat she went back there stay 4 a mth then can come back also need $ 4 her expense
5th now she run out of $ again due to she settle debt 4 her brother n her tooth surgney although i pass few hundred to her be4 im come back.

WAT TO DO EVERYWHERE NEED $ $ $
Should i still continue rom with her?
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