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Originally Posted by hjy_19
NOW MY QUESTION 4 EVERYONE??
at 1st thought everything will be very simple just pay their debt then marry,who know now lot of problem i can think of,
1st need send $ 4 her 2 brother study in ho chi minh $500 every mth,
2nd need settle her mother debt for their house around $9k,
3rd if arrange her come back need perpare $ again 4 her to buy ticket back vietnam
4th if after rom can stay 4 3 or 6 mth, after tat she went back there stay 4 a mth then can come back also need $ 4 her expense
5th now she run out of $ again due to she settle debt 4 her brother n her tooth surgney although i pass few hundred to her be4 im come back.
WAT TO DO EVERYWHERE NEED $ $ $
Should i still continue rom with her?
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Bro, after reading up yor thoughts on the ROM thing. The reason as to why you are asking us whether you should ROM seems to suggest that you are having doubts on her love for you and as well as your trust for her...
Secondly, I got the feeling that $ issue is going to be a problem to you cause you will not be asking us for our view on yor ROM if you love her and if you have the $ to support her for their family debts as well as her expenses.
Thirdly, looking at what you have describled. Seems that their family is treating u like a big carrot head. Ask yourself why should you be paying for their debts when you are not even married to their daughter? Also How can you be sure that they REALLY OWNED so much DEBTS? Is this a scam?
Lastly, just put the $ issue aside. Ask yourself. How well did she treat you when you are at her village? Did she bugs u to pay for everything? Did she try to stay close to you whenever there are chances?
If you are able to ask yourself these few qns, I guess you will know the answer by now. But IMHO, if I got such gf, I will be the first one running away. Thank God. I really need to be the MONEY GOD to fulfill her debts issue.
