Short Story :
1) My gf already wants raw sex, and we have already tried a bit (few strokes, then i cap and carry on). My concern is, if I were to have sex completely without the rubber and pull out only at the last moment to eject (on stomach/face/mouth/etc.. ;p ), how safe is it in not impregnating her?
Any techniques or suggestions for this?
2) She prefers cunniligus (me giving her oral) and fingering her than vaginal sex. She says during intercourse, the rod does not always hit the right spot. i.e, it goes ON OFF ON OFF -.- hence she doesn't enjoy it that much.
Any one can give some advice on this? We are both not very experienced love makers

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