Yes i do agree that a gal's upbringing and her family back ground plays an important role in her relationship with you....WL or not..
As for Vn man, I suppose it will be easy to stereotype them as lazy,drunks and wife beating but I personally know of some enterprising ones so I would say its just all about personal experiences - as in who you have met so far in your life......
Like most WL I have met, when i ask then if they intend to find a SG man to settle down eventually, 7 in 10 will say no and the reason???....
SG trai tin ko dc, noi gi cung sao nhieu!
But thats only because 99% of the SG man they meet are all out to have fun and are not looking to find a partner there....and the 99% is all but a small % of the total SG men available...
So are they talking about the whole picture? NO...
Just as most VN gals that bros in here meet are WLs.....
At the end of the day, take the proven and tested advice...Dun go looking for love at the wrong places...BUT....
If you do find love - like me - who's to tell you to stop? and who's to say it will 100% turn out to be a hoax?
Just use your own intuition with a bit of caution...
Cheers!!