[SingViet]

Originally Posted by sevenhabits

My own experience is, you have to read your wife's character. Is she the type who is grateful, or ungrateful?

If she is grateful, go for it - help her. You'll never know, the good things will come when it is your turn in need.

And being in marriage means togetherness, isn't it. Her parents are also your parents. If you adopt that attitude, your in-laws will love you and your marriage will be on even more solid grounds.

Trust me - I always tell my V wife we put her parents' interest on par with the interests of my parents. Equal. She is convinced and we'll last together.

Different people has different ways of doing things. My own experience being if you treat your in laws too well, they will treat you like ATM machine. But maybe you are different