[bloody_vlahov]

hi brother warbird,

true, true, self-confidence without the child-like arrogance is a big turn-on for these women. personally, i feel that self-confidence comes from life experiences, going through bad times without giving up, not buckling under pressure, and having the courage to move forward when there's a way backwards. through all these, you will understand yourself better, and it is thi understanding that gradually metamorphose itself into self-confidence. the difference between self-confidence and arrogance is the wisdom to be humble and to understand the different shades of grey in the world

when you talk to the girls, the way you present yourself, in most cases, is a summary of the above-mentioned. sensitive and smart girls can smell the difference between a 'vase' and a man of substance. do not promise easily, do not flash your assets wantonly; a self-confident man need not show off his material assets. his best assets are his life experiences and confidence. a true fighter must be able to fight with his hands. you don't always have the luxury of your fancy weapons

in reply to uhoo brother, any job that allows you exposure to different aspects of responsibilities is always good, regardless of pay. if you learn well and fast, monetary compensation will be in multiplier effect. or do business. managing risks is the best method to gain life experience and self-confidence, provided you don't get bankrupted by the experience (like i had on more than one occasion. i'm a huge huge risk-taker! risk is my aphrodisiac)