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Originally Posted by warbird

Greetings from Gotham city!

I hv manged to clear a mountain of paperwork since returning here n now hv more free time, haha.

Glad to hear!

Originally Posted by warbird

A pretty gal is like a cat. If u approach her, she may retreat. If u adore her, she may play hard to get. If u become clingy n needy, she will surely run away, even if you're handsome n rich, hahaha. Why? She is scared of u bcos she doesn't want to lose her freedom or get hurt physically. The right approach? Show that u r a relaxed, dominant male. You're sexual...n safe, be witty, unpredictable n mysterious; tease n flirt w/ her, then ignore her completely. Use push-pull. Play hard to get bcos you're the PRIZE...there is always a younger n prettier pussy in the near future.

Wise words. I've always believed that what has worked for me thus far is my ability to be comfortable in my own skin, having humour (and sometimes at my own expense), aware of own capabilities and treating women with respect but never a pushover for them to piss all over my head. I'm not desperate or needy, so it's always easy for me to extend them a fair battle of wits and any kinda challenge from the softer gender.

Originally Posted by warbird

The one problem w/ many exceptionally beautiful gals/women is that they often lack inner character, intellect n higher n/or professional education. Their physical beauty appears to be inversely proportionate to their educational level. A very beautiful gal has had an easy life since early teens, adored by every man, young n old alike. Why does she need to study or work hard? Has anyone met a very pretty gal w/ PHD in computer science from MIT or is an American board-certified neurosurgeon? I hv not, after spending decades in Gotham country.

Just sharing though, admittedly, I'm very partial towards women with the smarts, and can hold a witty debate, carry herself well, sure of what she wants and may I also unabashly add, with a pretty face. I'm easily attracted to women who try to do the push-pull with me when I do the same. It gives me a metaphorical hard-on anytime. I love that they try to test if I'm the one. The high that you get when they're convinced and you give them the withrawal symptoms... is simply orgasmic. I mean, I have to win at the final lap of course, if not it's not fun already. Hahaha. All guys should try to achieve this. Not only does it give you immense confidence, it also almost secures you a deserving woman.

Originally Posted by warbird

IMHO, a man should NEVER hv a sexual RS w/ a gal whose looks n figure r not attractive to him. Never, ever settle for less. However, in addition to physical attractiveness, he should give equal weights to her other attributes, including educational level, personality, character, family background...

A gem of wisdom from Big Brother warbird again. My experience (albeit short, considering I'm only in my late 20s) tells me that, usually women (read: bimbo) who are not very smart and are easy lays, are usually clingers. Smart women, who usually know what they want, are usually in the same game as you do. Therefore, when the clinger alarm goes off in your head, don't even pick up your pants man, just locate the door and run!

Originally Posted by warbird

I'm also aware of the saying, "baggers can't be choosers," n according to the classic Chinese novel The Water Edge, 且说鲁达自离了渭州，东逃西奔，急急忙忙，行过了几处州府，正是“饥不择食，寒不择衣，慌不择路，贫不择妻 。”

Well, life is never fair. Since when has life been fair? Even if Justice Bao were alive, he can't guarantee peace on earth too. (Sidenote: Dear Excellency, if you're hearing this please do not be offended. I'm merely making a figurative assumption. And might I also ask what you're doing in Sammyboyforum?) Yue Fei had never been treated most fairly, Helen Keller made her own bed and as far as I know, had a most eventful and purposeful life than anybody I personally know. We have four limbs, a brain and a heart, and also the same 24hrs in a day as with all great men ever known... It's what we do with them that matters. Time spent whining could be put to better use, like drinking cyanide or slitting the carotid artery.

Originally Posted by warbird

Life is ironic. I'm counting my blessings...in my old age, I'm having more pretty mistresses than I could possibly handle, whereas just one of them would hv been a godsent when I was a 20 yo student bursting w/ testosterone. And then there r so many angry, sex-starved young PRC men.

No bro, you're being extremely humble again. I'm sure you got your hands dirty and feet wet when you're young(er), hence now is the time to reap your harvest. If you're not suckling at the teat then it's blasphemy. Fence-sitters probably are still too lazy even to find cyanide.

Want to be successful with women? Act and think successful. Get the hands out of the pants and get out there and DO! There's enough time for one to lay six feet under, so sitting around isn't too sexy now. GO OUT THERE AND DO! MY MESSAGE TO THE YOUNGER CROWD IS THIS: BEING AN INFORMATION JUNKIE REAPS YOU NO REWARDS - BE LONG ON PRACTICE AND SHORTER ON THEORY INSTEAD.