[samsam33]

Am I right to say that both of you enjoying sex for about 1 year and only 1 year ago she starts to complain about pain? She did not complain about pain during that 1 year you got sex?

If yes, I think she does not want to have sex with you anymore unless you marry her. As you said, she mentions about marriage recently. I think she is afraid that in the end, you might not marry her as long as she continue to have sex with you. So she claims it's "pain"

Originally Posted by osiris81

Hi fellow samsters,
This is just a samster venting his spleen.

My gf and I have been dating for 2 years. During our initial courtship, my gf, let's call her Z, was very spontaneous about sex. Although I had dated a few girls, reaching third base, before her but she was first one I went all the way home.

Everything was all good until 1 year ago when she just didn't want to have sex, well, more like she kept saying pain regardless of how much foreplay. our sexual life went downhill.

I have never gone on WLs or even ONS.

She wanted to marry me in the future and told me so again recently. Here is the problem.

1) I really wanted to be with someone more sexually "hungry", if I marry her and I wont have any "fun", God forbids, I will be very frustrated

2) If I leave her now, she certainly will do stupid things to herself.

3) I need it A LOT.

I really want to give everything to just 1 lady whom I love and lust . If you guys are in my shoe, what will you do?