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Originally Posted by teebs_darklord
Ok, maybe let me rephrase what I said previously... 
Losing temper is losing composure only if you have feelings for the gal. In other words, in a normal relationship when you lose your temper with your significant other, it is because you have feelings for her. In relationships like this, which I had previously, my feelings for my gals are always zilch although they have feelings for me. So whenever I lose my temper at my gal, it's a way to show her whose the boss. End of the day, since I have zero feelings for her, I don't give a damm whether she comes back to me or not. If she comes back, then she has to abide by the rules of the relationship that I set. Whatever happens, I don't lose. 
If you succumb to the requests of your gal, even if it is only a few times, this shows up as your weakness which she will exploit to no end. Don't be surprised that even if you remain calm and composed, she is able to read you perfectly well. The fact that you tell her to fuck off and yet when she comes back, you accept her again with no conditions attached, shows to her that you were never serious about ending the relationship. Again this is a weakness that she will exploit.
You are correct to say that if a gal plays hard to get, we should just move on.
For Bro WB, his modus operandi is BY-ing the gal, meaning he makes an offer to the gal and if she accepts it, then the gal is his for that period. Of course, there will always be offers and counter offers and of course he may decide not to BY the gal even if she accepts his offer.
I could be wrong, but I believe what Bro WB meant when he said the one who shows the least concern controls the relationship means the one who has the least feelings in the relationship will be the one controlling it. Simply put, if you do not have feelings for the gal but the gal has feelings for you, then you will be in control of the relationship. It is a very simple concept but it is something that most people cannot or are unable to put into practice. |
Bro WB posted tips and gems and methods of chasing (and maintaining relationships with) gals you fancy, gals you want to develop into a relationship, be it normal BGR, BY-ing, ST, ONS.
Least concern or least feelings, what's the difference? Least feelings doesn’t mean no feelings right? If you have no feelings (eg, feeling of wanting to insert your hard on inside her) for a gal to start with, why would you wanna chase her? Or maintain such relationship with her?
Lesser feelings for your gal? Zilch feelings for your gal? But how do you know her feelings for you is more than you for her? How do you know she even has any feelings for you? She is in it for the money no? So "least concern" or "least feelings", to me its just for argument and I won't dwell on it because to me, its quite meaningless.
The message is very simple: don't let your target know she is indispensable. Reason: you will be seen as a loser and be easily manipulated.