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Originally Posted by Jtjan

Firstly, make sure she is above 16. Since she is your sis fren, u shd be ok. But if she wants you to pay her then make sure she is fully 18yo.

Since this is a friends with benefits situation, I guess the above advice is "just in case". And since it's FwB, I'm assuming she & you are already friends. So when you go out with her, treat her like a gal fren. But she already know there will be "action" at the end of the date. So just bring her to a meal, movie and an alcoholic drink!

The alcohol is essential as you make her less inhibited but make sure u dun drink too much. Alcohol ups the desire but is bad for performance. Alcohol also make it more UNlikely for her to back out becoz you have planned the date to flow smoothly into the bedroom. The place to drink shd be near a hotel so easy to just go "nearby" or "upstairs" to rest.

During the drinking, start talking abt sex related stuff and listen like you are really interested. You shd be interested becoz she will be telling you what turns her on or off. Getting her to talk abt sex also gets her in the mood. Then when the heat is on, then suggest to go "somewhere else". By now, she will know what to expect & if she ask where, tell her it'll be somewhere comfortable.

The hotel. Since its the first time, please dun bring the gal to Geylang or Joo Chiat or anywhere seedy. If you are not rich kind then pre-book a decent yet affordable hotel. You shd be able to get one between 100-150 for 1nite. Take it as an investment, it's the same as bonking a WL in Geylang.

A nice hotel will make not make the gal feel cheap. It also avoid the hassle of showing both ICs. But as the bonking with your FB get more frequent, u can go Hotel 81 kind since she knows it will be too expensive to keep going posh hotels. That's the good thing abt FBs, they will start to think for your wallet after a while and will not mind the place so long as she gets to bonk.

Lastly, u sound pretty inexperienced. Since u got her to agree to FB, pls dun get into an actual rship with her unless you really want to. Dun get into it juz becoz u dun want her to F other men. The beauty in FB rship is u get GFE without having to pay or the emotional attachments.

Cheers.

Im pretty sure that now some upper clase hotels requires ur IC...sometimes both as well. Correct me if im wrong