[johnsm]

I believe the usual traits of being confident of oneself which has been mentioned to death in this thread is one of the key as it is being reflected in your body language.

In my experience, if they agree to go out with you and actually turn up, chances are they will follow you back for the night. Usually, I will just service them to completion for this first meeting and will not have sex, no matter how they say. For me, that is still the beginning as my challenge is to get them to become a regular lover or whatever you call it.

This is the hardest part as the gals would be surprised and think that it is only a ONS. The second time we meet up, it would become more of an actual date which could be quite fun since you got the "sex" done with and away in the first meeting. Lolz. Now the KC game begins. If the other party is also a player then it takes a while to break down defenses. Well that is what I like, a challenge.

For the first 2-3 dates, I try to keep teasing the gal and still not have any after-date activities to keep her guessing. By the time we do it, she will be on heat. During this phase, I realize being mysterious would further pique the gal's interest. Of course, not giving in to the gal easily would also further allow you to dominate the relationship. I too sell them the "dream" depending on their wants and needs. Some want to settle down and marry while some want to start their own business and what-nots. Not that difficult since everyone wants to believe what they want to hear or see. Once they get sticky, I just stop the relationship stating the obvious reasons, which will be amicable.

I have always done this with strangers but never with work associates. I wonder if it wise to do it. Recently I have met a SYT during a conference but with an organization that I am close with. She is quite out-spoken for her age and has that child-like ("tia") voice that some Taiwanese gals have, which has attracted my attention. She agrees to go for a drink but I have yet the chance to ask her out as she is in another country. I am still evaluating if I should take up this challenge?

Currently I am also progressing with a KTV gal that I met but she has never sat with me. A cute innocent-looking 25 YO from GZ. I just happened to meet her along the corridor and got her number. We have been chatting on QQ for a couple of months. She is going back to China soon so I may drop by her hometown stating that I would like to take a holiday and ask for her company. She agrees. I wanted to get her a gift for her time but she does not want. I wonder what game she is playing but will play along. This would be fun.