[deludedgal]

1) Can anyone here explain to me how this can happen?

its in guys nature to be horny and some girls are horny.. some guys are not and so are some girls..

2) Should i marry this man? Or should i break off?

its really up to u... but most men enjoy sex

If he promised to change, should i believe him? I do not believe i have the power to change any man especially since he's so hardcore about sex.

change what? not to surf sammy any more?

3) What will my future be like with him?

He may be wanting sex mostly...

4) Why do men pay for sex?

because they cannot get it from gf,wife and find it bored doing with their SO or their SO do not like sex..

Please do not suggest that we have sex before marriage.
I'm so glad that we didn't, at least now i can leave him and build another relationship with a good man.

Though, i must say that i do not know who to trust anymore.

5) Lastly, if i were your serious girlfriend, fiancee or wife, would you quit doing this if you know exactly how hurt i am?

I am a girl so I would not know.. but i guess all guys can tell u they quit, but secretly stilll come here.. as long as they are not into prostitution, i still think its acceptable to read things here and not get carried away

just my own thoughts.. just want to say the world isn't what we thought it is and many things happen despite us not wanting it to happen. Sometimes truth hurts.. we can live in a veil of rainbows as long as you think everyone is a saint.. or face the fact that humans do err and we try to be the best we can.. hope u will make a choice that will make you happy