I am still wif HIM....

[Blue_gal]

it had been like almost 3 yrs...in the end i still wif HIM....the feeling is different now ...

when we started it supposed to be just LUST, in the end there is feeling...
as time goes by, i ended the 'game' as i dun wanna to hurt another woman's heart and the family....
i have tried to forget about him and started a new serious r/s .......but knn all PRICK wanna the "new generation" type of r/s = MUST TRY PUSSY then start feeling... well i am sick of such "new generation" r/s... so as long as PRICK ask for PUSSY, i ask him go home 'drill HOLES"

in between the 3 years, we broke off like 2 times ...there was once we didn't meet up for abt 2 months....

in the end we are together again...but this time the feeling is very different...

We dun just meet up for LUST, in state we spend time together...i am enjoying his accompany and I dun know am i falling into "DEEPER" SHIT this time! sometime I will rather not meeting single guy and go dinner with him... and when going out movies with other guys, i am scared to bump into him...

but i always tell him that i will leave him ONE DAY for sure as I will not agree to break his family.....

damn why it is so hard to find someone RIGHT for you.. and when u found tat person HE is married! PUI!

[ady9913]

Hi.....

Sad and sorry for you....

Hope you will find the right guy for you.....

For a start.... you can intro more of ur self.....Im sure there are eligible samster.... for you....

U jus got to look more deeper.....

Good luck.....

[Gerald Tan]

Hi Blue Gal...
Its been a long time since u participated in sammyboys FR...now, i have seen you here..glad to know that u are still kicking alive in this forum....
Have u forgotten your mantra..ONce A BItCH ALwayS A BitCH!~"
So, i would advice u to enjoy while your "delicious well have some juicy left"..hehe

I guess we all can't help u much except to console u and encourage u to enjoy sexperience life to the fullest...but whatever it is, even if u have to leave him..we are all still around to make your day 'happy'..just pm anyone of us...best rgd

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by Blue_gal

damn why it is so hard to find someone RIGHT for you.. and when u found tat person HE is married! PUI!

Do you usually try to find out the marital status of the men you date before you 2 get to the stage where "you know he is the RIGHT person"?

I bet at least for this case, you knew he was married before going further with him, and got yourself into this "SHIT" now. So your statement that "when u found tat person HE is married!" does not apply here; since he is married before you found him - not the other way round

And if you often find that married men are taken, here's a quote which may explain why:

Studies now indicate that it is not that married men are inherently better but rather women judge them to be better than single men. Being married gives an "attractive factor" to men.
So why do women perceive married men to be better than single men?

By using photographs of men and adding a label of married or single, women were asked to choose the more attractive men. They chose those labeled married more often than those labeled single. Woman flirting with man

Women are more sensitive to the choices made by other women i.e. a married man has already been chosen as a suitable mate by at least one other female and this man has indicated by getting married that he wishes a long term relationship. For women, these are desirable traits in a man.

Across species women carry the reproductive burden. They have a greater investment generically in reproduction through pregnancy and lactation. Males generically are limited by the availability of females.

Because of this, females tend to be the choosier sex as choosing the wrong mate harms the female's reproduction investment more than the male's. To choose the right mate, females must use environmental cues and at least one of those cues is the selection of a mate by another female.

Also read this article about Love Stopper:
http://ezinearticles.com/?Love-Stopp...Gay&id=4217519

[Blue_gal]

Originally Posted by ady9913

For a start.... you can intro more of ur self.....Im sure there are eligible samster.... for you......

thanks but no thanks am Not looking for MAN frm here...its a sex siteeeeee
Just to bitch abt stuffs....

Originally Posted by Gerald Tan

So, i would advice u to enjoy while your "delicious well have some juicy left"..hehe

Tat is diff between MAN n WOman.."HE" will only rest till the day "HE" stop workingggg but for "HER" there is a time where "SHE" only wants to DO with the special "HIM"...no of time is nt important but the moment is sweet...
I was once young I can Fark like rabbitss but now once a month..cos he is marriedman eachtime there is guilty feeling.... it's just me...

Originally Posted by goodpartner

I bet at least for this case, you knew he was married before going further with him, and got yourself into this "SHIT" now. So your statement that "when u found tat person HE is married!" does not apply here; since he is married before you found him - not the other way round
And if you often find that married men are taken..

u are rite half half only...i only know he is married after a while...we started of becos of LUST only...he was the 1st man I started to go out with after I dumped blue uncle for 7 yrs.
SEx is a drug once u hv started to hv it.. U will want it more...tat is the reason I dun date anymore after blue uncle ... But I met him....n we started LUST... But now it's nt abt LUST we spend time doing other things together...n share abt our life...
I wan him as my best friend...but seem like nt possible...I can feel he love me.. N I hv feeling for him...
U re rite abt marriedman more attractive ...his care for his family..is want I wish to have but I can't hv
It....
I hv make it clear to him tat I will leave him one day n he accept it.....but I dun know I will let go when....

[vietnam80]

sorry to hear that he is married and yet u like him so much.... Have u tried asking him or did u really feel how or what he see u as..??

[jf66312]

hi blue gal ,

am sad to hear what you are going through...cant advise you much but here are some words for you which i hope can sooth your heart..

Dun judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up. If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall. "The HAPPIEST people DONOT necessarily have the BEST of all. They simply APPRECIATE what they find on their way”

Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don't judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come some time or later...

cheers & take care!

[NewMike1304k]

Dear Sis,

I am glad that you accept the fact that this is a sex site and you should not be looking for good men here. As for having a relationship with a married man, I am glad that you understand that it will end in grief for a lot of parties in the end.

True love is a weird and crazy thing. Though you know it is not right, you still yearn for it. I know how it feels because I was also attached when I fell in love with another woman. But you know something? It may be painful, but you have to do the "right" thing. There are 2 choices, be the perfect bitch and if he really loves you and you love him, then ask him to leave his family and be with you. After all, if it is true love... why not? Or if you truly love him and want him to be happy, then the other choice is to leave him and let him go back to his family.

But it takes 2 hands to clap and if he wants to makan outside and yet have a family, then he is truly a cad and should be put into his place. For there is nothing more sacred than the love one has for his family. Once he has broken this sacred trust, he can break all other rules too. If you are game to play along, then so be it lor. You do not have to moan about it lor.

So the end of the story is what you want out of it. Just like many guys who come here moaning about how they love WL and so on, it is the same, they do not know what they want.

I wish you luck lah.

[Black_Hawk_Up]

chance are he is using you as a sex object with girlfriend feeling.

it not easy and you might never be able to do let go until it too late(his wife found out). from your posting it seem you do not want that to happen. but deep down inside do you have a little part in you wishing that will happen?

anyway, it not an easy situation to get out once feeling is involve. wish all the best for you and hope all of you can find a better solution.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by Blue_gal

U re rite abt marriedman more attractive ...his care for his family..is want I wish to have but I can't hv
It....

Originally Posted by NewMike1304k

There are 2 choices, be the perfect bitch and if he really loves you and you love him, then ask him to leave his family and be with you. After all, if it is true love... why not?

...Once he has broken this sacred trust, he can break all other rules too.

Unfortunately, the irony here is that if this married man can forsake his family for another women (be it REAAAALLY "true love"), then it'll take away that desirable trait where "he cares for his family" - obviously then he don't

There will ALWAYS be someone out there a better lover and match than you - there is no end to cultivating more "true love" with another without a commitment to stop at the first.

Here's the link again for thoughts:
http://ezinearticles.com/?Love-Stopp...Gay&id=4217519

Plenty of single men out there who can possess that trait. Perhaps even divorce man, who already showed this "family" trait where the divorce is not due to infidelity issues.

Oh, btw, players who are eating out are well aware of this women instinct on seeking "men who cares for family" and use exactly that to bait fish like you; that could be the very reason why he managed to keep you as a no-string FB. Of coz, you're not an 18yo I can lecture about this obvious fact, he must have possessed other traits that you like too, and which you've decided to be of worth the risk and fun.

Do you love the feeling of falling in love? I do

[jp18]

Absolutely agree with goodpartner.. Sis, you are facing a guy who knows just the way to play this game and he has gotten you right where he wanted. If you're happy and like it this way, just enjoy each other company while it lasts..

[Aviator]

Hey Sis,
The reality is all the pretty women are married and all the handsome guys are gay. ronin willaim say so not i say.

[uobboss]

Well sis u treading in dangerous waters .

If u want him 100% for urself ask him to divorce his wife and give him time frame .
If u want to remain as mistress/PTL juz hope he will not get tired of you or affair found out and wife force him to choose .

If u know who he will choose between u and wife u will know wat u wanna do .

[bleuwings]

Agreed, things can get pretty messy and ugly. Should try to settle tis well so u can move on, with or without him.....

[kevin28]

If he really has good intention for you he would want the best for you so he should let you go and meet someone that you will be able to start a family with. He is just taking advantage of the situation and wants the best of both worlds. If you continue and his wife finds out you would have ruin many lives so please leave him ASAP.

This is just my humble opinion.