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[Baileys]

Ask you guys one question....
If you asked your wife if it is possible to be together again and her reply is this....
"To be honest with you...I have bed with a couple of guys when we were separated. If you don't mind we can try"

What will you react to the situation ? Do you think she is telling the truth ?

[screwu]

If i were in your shoes....you should start afresh positively
..... of course i would still be curious .....

[nuclearkid]

Originally Posted by Baileys

What will you react to the situation ? Do you think she is telling the truth ?

This may be an opportunity for you to bail if you have such intentions. However if you wish she would stay, you know what your answer should be. If you have been having a good time on the side, I would think you guys are now pretty even, assuming she spoke the truth.

[moscato]

really admire you, if i were you my handphone kena found out, will be so embarassed maybe even quit my job

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by Baileys

Ask you guys one question....
If you asked your wife if it is possible to be together again and her reply is this....
"To be honest with you...I have bed with a couple of guys when we were separated. If you don't mind we can try"

What will you react to the situation ? Do you think she is telling the truth ?

You fuck around, and your wife leaves you n now you're worried karma will bite you????

Your wife is not your property la.
Her cb doesn't belong to u.
If u can't get over it, it means you can't live with YOUR OWN MISTAKES. Blame yourself.

Anyway whether she's telling the truth depends on her social circle. If she's homely kind, probably not true

But take it it's true
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Exchange points karma ma

[siambee]

Originally Posted by Baileys

What will you react to the situation ? Do you think she is telling the truth ?

i am no saint, i fuck around too but when come to the your question again,
can u live with it when u are back together too? is she the one that u can grow
old with?

her green light is already given to u, i guess only u have the ans now.

[Baileys]

Yes bro
I already have my answer....and like the other bro said this is my karma for fucking around....
Will get back and see how it goes....

[xrage]

I hope your answer is something you can live by and be happy with.

IF you screwed around, can blame her for doing the same right? I'm no saint too, but I can understand if you are not at ease with her doing the same. We men r like that - Do what I say, not what I do.

Nice updates. Your wife must be real hot. looking forward to more updates. and sincerely, smooth path for you both.

[Baileys]

Understand too....sometimes somethings when done cannot be undone even if she agreed to the initial suggestion. So my advise to guys who were thinking of having 3p with wife and another partner pls better think again before putting it into action.
I seriously think that she did bed with other guys cause at that moment of time as I can sense that she was really damn pissed off with me.
But anyway now I am trying my best to get her back. I know it won't be easy judging from her behaviour recently.
She is trying too but i know inside her she still has not forgiven me.
But funny thing is when she get bonked by me....she turned into a complete different person so passionate and horny.

[Wisemanstand]

well, bro, I am somehow kind of in your shoes last month but I decided to end the relationship. Yes, we men fuck around and we do not allow gf to fuck around. as what Chinese said, "男人找女人叫風流，女人找男人叫下流“

When I read your story, it reminded me to the day I caught my gf with her pants down with other guys on my bed. I really love her and she keep saying nothing between them as she was drunk. At first I do not notice a guy on my bed as is dark and I came back late. As I entered the room, she said her gf on the bed and is naked and pushed me to the toilet and we fuck inside there. Somehow, I feel she is not concentrating and keep looking at the door but her under were wet and is naked, and said she love me very much. I kissed her and smell smoking and she said she din smoke and I start feel strange and she quickly grab her clothes and went out and I heard the key sound and I came out. Fuck.... a guy trying to get out from my room.

To this, she begged me not to dump her, and keep saying nothing happened. Even bang her head against the wall if I do not trust her. Nice drama.... anyway, due to my love towards her, I forgive her, but she keep going out drinking until a day, she took K pill in my room and as she is high, i asked her whether she is still belongs to me and she said, no, as she will be in disaster if I caught her again. Since then, every time I fuck her, it reminds me what happened and whether she just fuck by others. Until 1 morning, she sent me photos of her with other guy and she said was way before with me and was a prank joke by her friend.

I cant trust her anymore and ended our r/s.

So, bro, if you able to let go of this wild thought, then, go for it. Else, this will come and haunt every time you bonk her.

Think twice. I know this might be wrong, but guys always guys. As is you initiate 3P and she get jeolous. She may have same thought that you bonked others then bonk her now. She can take it? Else, to balance her thought, she will go out bonk by others and then come back bonk by you.

Good Luck, bro!!!

[sibehchio3]

Originally Posted by Wisemanstand

well, bro, I am somehow kind of in your shoes last month but I decided to end the relationship. Yes, we men fuck around and we do not allow gf to fuck around. as what Chinese said, "男人找女人叫風流，女人找男人叫下流“

When I read your story, it reminded me to the day I caught my gf with her pants down with other guys on my bed. I really love her and she keep saying nothing between them as she was drunk. At first I do not notice a guy on my bed as is dark and I came back late. As I entered the room, she said her gf on the bed and is naked and pushed me to the toilet and we fuck inside there. Somehow, I feel she is not concentrating and keep looking at the door but her under were wet and is naked, and said she love me very much. I kissed her and smell smoking and she said she din smoke and I start feel strange and she quickly grab her clothes and went out and I heard the key sound and I came out. Fuck.... a guy trying to get out from my room.

To this, she begged me not to dump her, and keep saying nothing happened. Even bang her head against the wall if I do not trust her. Nice drama.... anyway, due to my love towards her, I forgive her, but she keep going out drinking until a day, she took K pill in my room and as she is high, i asked her whether she is still belongs to me and she said, no, as she will be in disaster if I caught her again. Since then, every time I fuck her, it reminds me what happened and whether she just fuck by others. Until 1 morning, she sent me photos of her with other guy and she said was way before with me and was a prank joke by her friend.

I cant trust her anymore and ended our r/s.

So, bro, if you able to let go of this wild thought, then, go for it. Else, this will come and haunt every time you bonk her.

Think twice. I know this might be wrong, but guys always guys. As is you initiate 3P and she get jeolous. She may have same thought that you bonked others then bonk her now. She can take it? Else, to balance her thought, she will go out bonk by others and then come back bonk by you.

Good Luck, bro!!!

Well said bro!

[Wisemanstand]

TS, my 2c opinion. Never ever get gf or family involve what you did outside.

Home is a place where you could rest and feel safe. Never ever mess around with it.

After eat out, just clean the mouth and come back clean.

[rockyt]

TS, there is a glimmer of hope as your wifey is hinting you to try and patch up. I agreed with Wisemanstand that guys will always be guys. I asked around many married ladies on the situation if their husband strays, their answers were more or less the same. "if he can fuck around, I can do it too". Some of them mentioned that if it is an affair, then there is no forgiveness. However, if it is just a paid sex, then it is forgiveable. Women being women, it is a very sensitive part and Wisemanstand further mentioned that after eating out, clean it and come back clean. It is too costly and emotionally to break up a family, especially with kids. So, my humble advise to TS is at least try to swallow your pride, admit your mistake and start afresh. Good luck bro!

[Baileys]

Bro I actually somewhat agreed what you have mentioned here. Her way of taking it back at me....
"As is you initiate 3P and she get jeolous. She may have same thought that you bonked others then bonk her now. She can take it? Else, to balance her thought, she will go out bonk by others and then come back bonk by you."

After this incident, I can see changes in her....
Her dressing sense has changed, she is now wearing clothes that she deems not suitable for office previously.
She goes out more often nowadays esp after work. Mostly to some drinking session.

[Baileys]

Originally Posted by rockyt

TS, there is a glimmer of hope as your wifey is hinting you to try and patch up. I agreed with Wisemanstand that guys will always be guys. I asked around many married ladies on the situation if their husband strays, their answers were more or less the same. "if he can fuck around, I can do it too". Some of them mentioned that if it is an affair, then there is no forgiveness. However, if it is just a paid sex, then it is forgiveable. Women being women, it is a very sensitive part and Wisemanstand further mentioned that after eating out, clean it and come back clean. It is too costly and emotionally to break up a family, especially with kids. So, my humble advise to TS is at least try to swallow your pride, admit your mistake and start afresh. Good luck bro!

Bro already swallowed and admitted is my mistake...