Friends with benefits (Need some help)

[1bbcd5]

Just let nature take it course bro as most first timer are very nervous to get into sex.

[<<totally>>]

Originally Posted by malaysian

Okay so I managed to meet a girl online who's willing to be friends with benefits with me.
She's 18, college student,virgin, chinese, decent body but ok-ok face.

I know she isn't lying because she's my sister's friend. But they aren't close and they only met up one time for some concert. And she has no idea I'm her sister's brother so it's all good.

Am I getting an impression you go to other people face book, go through their friends, try to hit one with those you prefer using another account?

Originally Posted by malaysian

So day time I don't think I can get her to a bar and she says she's fine if I just straight away bring her to a hotel :O

Should I chat with her first in the hotel room before starting anything serious?

This part I can say is not fitting when I did the logic setting vision transform mind process stage. That girl cannot be a virgin lo!!! Go hotel chit chat and that's it? That virgin tag is day basic har? I also virgin today.

Bar <old man playing ground? Suggesting it to her to go to a pub(bar) in the day??? I think is like going sight seeing(flower garden) at night. Sight seeing must be in the day so you can see all the flowers blossoming under the light. Out of sync!!!

She agreed to go hotel with you even not going to bar.Do not make any sense to me. Then in the first place straight go hotel, why the bar in the first place?

Go hotel rest, tcss? Is like putting the cat and a fish together and hoping that the cat do not eat the fish. TS, are you yandao kia? Or that girl got no brains to think what you planning to do?

Most virgin gals experiences must got planning and tactics all executed in perfect sync. Setting them in the right mood, make them so in love to reject your request, promising them this and that till the last second before breaking in.

Such a short post yet with so much doubts. See liao also headache. BTW what is the benefit that she is going after or you are giving to her in exchange for that V tag?

[owl888]

if u can get her to be your friends with benefits and surrender her virginity to u so easily den u can be sifu and share your experience rather than us sharing

[malaysian]

Nope, I don't go on FB stalk people randomly message people.
In fact she was the one who found me.
I posted a topic on CL about a month ago and she replied to it.
I know it sounds kinda unreal right? What are the odds to that? But it happened.

So I'll admit I'm new to this kinda things that's the reason why I created a thread for peoples' advises.

[malaysian]

Originally Posted by owl888

if u can get her to be your friends with benefits and surrender her virginity to u so easily den u can be sifu and share your experience rather than us sharing

That's only "if" I manage to get her. So far she confirm can but I'm scared last minute ffk.
But if I do managed, you'll be sure to have my story.

[Mindy]

Originally Posted by <<totally>>

Am I getting an impression you go to other people face book, go through their friends, try to hit one with those you prefer using another account?

This part I can say is not fitting when I did the logic setting vision transform mind process stage. That girl cannot be a virgin lo!!! Go hotel chit chat and that's it? That virgin tag is day basic har? I also virgin today.

Bar <old man playing ground? Suggesting it to her to go to a pub(bar) in the day??? I think is like going sight seeing(flower garden) at night. Sight seeing must be in the day so you can see all the flowers blossoming under the light. Out of sync!!!

She agreed to go hotel with you even not going to bar.Do not make any sense to me. Then in the first place straight go hotel, why the bar in the first place?

Go hotel rest, tcss? Is like putting the cat and a fish together and hoping that the cat do not eat the fish. TS, are you yandao kia? Or that girl got no brains to think what you planning to do?

Most virgin gals experiences must got planning and tactics all executed in perfect sync. Setting them in the right mood, make them so in love to reject your request, promising them this and that till the last second before breaking in.

Such a short post yet with so much doubts. See liao also headache. BTW what is the benefit that she is going after or you are giving to her in exchange for that V tag?

good csi work. ur link back to the facebook is scary. didnt realise fb can be used in that way.

[flowbow]

why in the world would a girl in her right mind choose to lose her virginity so willingly to a guy who is just her FB. Worse still, someone she hardly even knows. Man I'm baffled.

[callmebad]

when comes to women and sex, there are no fix rules because every woman is different

if you want it to be a friends with benefit type of relationship, you must make it clear to her and there is no emotional attachment means both sides can have his/her real lover and can end this kind of relationship anytime

you said she is 18 and virgin, so you must make sure if she knows what she is doing

because she is inexperience, have to be careful, and not to make her feel she is being taken advantage -most important she must knows what she is doing to prevent in future if anything goes wrong,she turns round to accuse you of something bad

not necessary at hotel,anywhere also can fuck as long as no one is around to disturb you, if your house has no one, you can bring her home to fuck at your own pace, or you can pitch a tent at East Coast seaside and fuck her under the Moon and the stars and the sky, won't it be very romantic,this way?

[tabulaRasa]

I gave up my virginity (way back) to someone really random just because I wanted to lose it and be done with it.

I figured the less he meant to me, the less of a chance I'd ever get hurt, you know, because of all the significance people normally attach to the whole 'first time' thing.

Yes I am a silly twerp.

[malaysian]

I have no idea why I can't edit my posts and somehow Mod seems quite busy so looks like all my either posts which I tried to explain myself did not appear earlier.
Let me just make this clear to those misinformed-
No I did not engage the girl on Facebook nor do I look for girls to exploit on Facebook. ( Only once when she emailed me with her photo did I realized I have mutual friends with her, then I checked my FB)

I posted a topic on CL about a months back or so and she took the initiated to reply to my post, not the other way round.

[spidey7]

Yup as wat shiokpleasure said pass her 2e bros here. We will teach her accordingly. Age 16 factor cums in again. Ha!

[7022]

Let me borrow this tread...

I dont have a FB, thats friends with benefit right? Now, i know this girl that i like to have as FB, she is an open person, we often meet up or dinner, we used to go for drinks together.

How do i ask if she wants to be my FB? I so wanted to ask when we were out having dinner, but really dont know how to and am also afraid it will ruin our friendshp if she is not into being my FB...

[malaysian]

Originally Posted by 7022

Let me borrow this tread...

I dont have a FB, thats friends with benefit right? Now, i know this girl that i like to have as FB, she is an open person, we often meet up or dinner, we used to go for drinks together.

How do i ask if she wants to be my FB? I so wanted to ask when we were out having dinner, but really dont know how to and am also afraid it will ruin our friendshp if she is not into being my FB...

See how risky that is? One wrong move could ruin the whole relationship.
I don't mean to sound like a jerk but the safest way ( not necessarily the best) is to get her drunk and then maybe trying asking her then? Worst case scenario you can just say you were drunk.


EDIT: Out of topic, how come only now I can edit this post but not my previous ones?
And for does of you who have been reading this thread, please read my previous posts cos finally got approved by mod.

[cabayasi]

Originally Posted by malaysian

See how risky that is? One wrong move could ruin the whole relationship.
I don't mean to sound like a jerk but the safest way ( not necessarily the best) is to get her drunk and then maybe trying asking her then? Worst case scenario you can just say you were drunk.

Don't do this. She can cry rape with this. The most is only when she is sober, but not totally knock out. You will end up losing this friend.

[7022]

Originally Posted by cabayasi

Don't do this. She can cry rape with this. The most is only when she is sober, but not totally knock out. You will end up losing this friend.

Yeah, i dont want to loss her as a friend but would want to ask if she's intrested to be my FB...
Really no experience in this and hope those experience can give some advice.