My story with a prc. Help help Help

[DO_YOU_BJ]

This is something we've all seen one too many times liao....
There no GongTao......
She's not doin anything....it's all SELF KC!
Here's proof:

Originally Posted by m3a41617

no sound no picture from her today. really sian. i damn miss her.

Then add those damn MAN words to see what card she's gonna throw so can counter her.....
Already a lost cause but seeking self denial to justify his actions....
Need I say more.....
This is justification for mentally screwed!

[NewandLost]

Originally Posted by m3a41617

Hello all bros and sister. Normally i will Forget after the section with a WL I paid and i f off from there. No feeling at all de. but this time i kanna gong tao already. one month back i was a regular at M13 eagle place. I have try Bm Benz m3 mong qi etc etc. on that day there no w gal at all. so auntie call other house gal. Was intro a new gal . everything was normal. cut it short. after the section, we exchange number.

one night she was having problem call me 4 am in the morning. then i go fetch her and send her home.. she was down with her BF etc. after that night, i fetch her after work then we go supper, shopping etc. not much money spend. she will sms or call me when she got the time at work. we did make love after she finish work etc. she didnt ask money from me. but i did give her small amount of money and tell her is for you to buy meal.. i know there no free meal in singapore. after the first time i gave her $. she give me for free and enjoy the session with me.. sometime she did ask from me money as to pay rent etc etc. straight away i say no money etc. she didnt angry,
and say i really treat you the best and like my husband.

we been togther happily till now. i lost focus in my work and keep thinking of her and i lost my sleeping time. i know i am in deep shit and kanna kc kong tao already. my friend ask me to stop. i try very hard but i cant. what a lousy player i am. i really dun know what she want from me. fun? lust? Money?

pls help and give advise. sorry my english no very good.

like all the kind braddahs on this board try to tell you, you must quit now. you will be financially and more so importantly mentally ruined by this gal. she setting you up braddah. aint no doubt about it.

[absolut_roi]

bro ts,

after reading your post, it reminds me of my best friend lam's situation started 2006. "j" was an undergrad then and they knew each other at the outskirt temple of thailand. things were smooth sailing for them but he is a married man with a young boy. he had been travelling to and fro sg until late 2008 when something unfortunate happened to lam's wife. then he woke up from the whole dream.. is it true love or just lust over j's body?? he was sharing with me after decided to call it a day. they have had many many memories, happy, sad, sorrow over 2 years plus.. i can share your sentiments and i can feel how you are feeling right now. it is never easy to meet a soulmate, and once you meet, it is never easy to let go. now my friend focus on his family only, he said everything is up in our mind.. what the mind can conceive, the body can achieve and both mind and body work as a pair. time to wake up and move on. hope you can break this "gong tau". cheers!

[Panamera]

Originally Posted by m3a41617

after that night, i fetch her after work then we go supper, shopping etc. not much money spend. we did make love after she finish work etc. she didnt ask money from me. but i did give her small amount of money and tell her is for you to buy meal.. i know there no free meal in singapore. after the first time i gave her $. she give me for free and enjoy the session with me.. sometime she did ask from me money as to pay rent etc etc. straight away i say no money etc. she didnt angry,and say i really treat you the best and like my husband.

we been togther happily till now. i lost focus in my work and keep thinking of her and i lost my sleeping time. i know i am in deep shit and kanna kc kong tao already. my friend ask me to stop. i try very hard but i cant. what a lousy player i am. i really dun know what she want from me. fun? lust? Money?

Originally Posted by m3a41617

this prc is quite different from other. i didnt give her money or what. only some of my sleeping time to her.. damn sian.. let thing be normal. i will never give her money and see what she trying to do..Must handbrake my feeling toward her. let thing slowly fade away.

Originally Posted by m3a41617

i didnt give her money at all. and i really can feel that this kc kong tao is damn jailet. Till now i just reach home not long ago. i cant sleep at all. worry she drunk at df etc. worry she will call me later on to fetch her etc etc. Jialet. all bros here i will really try my very best to win this kc battle.. i really pity her also. i lost focus on my job because my mind keep thinking of her and she keep calling and sms me while i in the work. cant sleep well cause she will call me after her working hour.

i really feel very empty in my mind. no one to look forward too. no one to approach. really F kanna this kind of thing on me. her kong tao really very strong. i bet not much man can tahan it. she really very beautiful and feminine. no mood to F other gal cause she really can read what i want. dilemma.. shall i play on the game or see what on her mind and true colour is.

Originally Posted by m3a41617

yes my problem is mentally and emotionally been screwed up. . see what this clever gal is up to. i will try to hold back my heart . see what she up for. think and think back what happen this one month, she is a damn clever gal, but i also not stupid. like what she say and her sister discuss about me. this guy is not a a easy stupid guy. anyway we are human being. together long already feeling is there..damn stress....so many bros here kanna PRC kong tao here. let see what she is up to. no sound no picture from her today. really sian. i damn miss her. there a saying: the soldier dun move. we dun move. the soldier move. we attack..say is easy then done. i will slowly clear up this mess.

m3a41617, been following your thread from day 1, YOU should ask yourselves: What you want from her? and How much money you feel like giving her?

From all your posting, seems like she didn't KC you or put any kong tau on you. There is NO KC BATTLE with her - You are fighting a battle with yourselves. You just need to win yourselves over..It's been you and yourselves throughout.

Yours is a Self-Cast Kong Tau making yourselves Tao Tau into a Gong Gong Tau now

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

We learn from history.
Thus we dont make the same mistakes as wat we learnt from history
We only make new history
But, if we continue to make the same old history repeat itself, then, we really have to start looking inwards to see the cause of what's repeating the same history over and over again.

This is really true.

I got one friend who thinks he is more mature than guys who are younger than him. His excuse? "Being older means live longer, live longer means got more life experience, more life experience means more mature."

My opinion? Complete bullshit.

Having more experience does not necessarily make someone wiser. It all depends if you learn from the experience or not. Some guys are smart enough that they don't even need the first-hand experience - they just need to observe someone else making mistakes and they learn from there! How mature can a guy be if he keeps making the same mistake because he refuses to learn?

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by m3a41617

Thank for all the bros reply. i just back from lunch time..
yes my problem is mentally and emotionally been screwed up.
i will listen to some of our bros advise. see what this clever gal is up to. i will try to hold back my heart . see what she up for.
We are always correct, she can sleep with anyone as long the money is in.
of course i wont bring her home. only outside for sex. think and think back what happen this one month, she is a damn clever gal, but i also not stupid. like what she say and her sister discuss about me. this guy is not a a easy stupid guy. anyway we are human being. together long already feeling is there
damn stress.... so many bros here kanna PRC kong tao here. let see what she is up to. no sound no picture from her today. really sian. i damn miss her.
there a saying: the soldier dun move. we dun move. the soldier move. we attack..

say is easy then done. i will slowly clear up this mess.

bro hope u get the whole picture by nw. its the old ego boasting trick she is playing with u, says u r nt an easy guy, a KC expert, a casanova whom she helplessly fell in love with, sms u everyday, making u feel so important to her, then suddenly no sound no picture, making u miss and gian and feel like crawling back to her. bro like wat i have said earlier, it could be her using u as an emotional support, or a potential cai tao but one thing for sure is she doesnt only plant her seed in you ALONE. who knws, not far away, at this moment, there is another similar lovesick soul kana jialat frm her as well. b4 u can think of breaking her heart, she has already broken yours. no sound no picture frm her = time to wake up and move on.

[Panamera]

Originally Posted by m3a41617

anyway we are human being. together long already feeling is there. damn stress....

m3a41617, from your 1st post. you mentioned it's a month ago, it's not damn long together..so you can still undo your self-kong tau and walk out of it. Your choice because
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[DO_I_BJ]

Originally Posted by m3a41617

and say i really treat you the best and like my husband.
.

give some explanation how she treat u best and like her husband

Originally Posted by m3a41617

together long already feeling is there

one month u call long... one year is is eternity liao...

pple here can give alot of advices here. You do the thinkin for urself. Is she out to con u? But i dun think one month the girl will love you and treat u like her hubby la. I agree with HCKing. U might be just another emotional comfort.

[simple2kee]

Originally Posted by GL-Roamer

Few things you should do to get yourself out of this shit.

First thing you should do is to delete her number from your handphone
Second: delete whatever previous SMS she sent you (DO NOT READ)
Third: delete all SMS IMMEDIATELY when you receive them (DO NOT READ THEM)
Fourth: Cut off her calls whenever she calls you.
Fifth: Stop visiting her at the legal house

bro GL-Roamer, i do agree with u. TS, pay attention to it.

goodluck!

[GL-Roamer]

TS

The reason why you are feeling like this is because you have not removed the stimulus (the lady) for your emotional reactions. You are responsible for your own emotions not the lady. She has set herself there as a stimulus but it is your responsibility to remove her from your life. Now you have already said she did not reply you but you are still thinking of her.

By thinking of her, going out with her and talking to her you are walking into an obvious trap. Your mental alarms has rang but you are not heeding it. The lady is waiting there with her mouth wide open to swallow you up. She will eat u up and spit out your bones for your family to pick up. Don't you think your family will be sad to see you in that state?

Why would you want to stake your emotions, the security of your family and your finances on this 1 lady?

Who is she to you?

Is she really worth so much?

What is it that makes her worth so much? Is she queen of england?

Are you willing to die for her? If yes, why?

She is just a cheap whore playing dirty mind games. Have the courage to stand up to your emotions and the pains will be over sooner than you expect. You will have to TEAR her out from your heart. Nothing less.

You have all the support of the bros here. So act responsibly.

Sorry if I sound direct or harsh (don't mean to offend anyone).

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Bro GL-Roamer, I dun tink you sound harsh for a second.
There's only one way or the highway.........
You will have to TEAR her out from your heart. Nothing less.
Very well said bro.....

[NewandLost]

Bros just quite now. Its hard we know but just quit. All the braddahs on this board have been through it in one form or another. When you have this many braddahs including myself advising what we feel is best for you there is a reason. I dont want to see you go down the tube because its just like happening to me again. Sure the braddash fell the same way. QUIT NOW.

[colins]

Originally Posted by m3a41617

i will listen to some of our bros advise. see what this clever gal is up to. i will try to hold back my heart . see what she up for.
....
think and think back what happen this one month, she is a damn clever gal, but i also not stupid. like what she say and her sister discuss about me. this guy is not a a easy stupid guy. anyway we are human being.
....
let see what she is up to. no sound no picture from her today. really sian. i damn miss her.

there a saying: the soldier dun move. we dun move. the soldier move. we attack..

Bravo bravo...by the way, which strategy are you applying ah?

[NewandLost]

"let see what she is up to. no sound no picture from her today. really sian. i damn miss her.
"

she playing with you braddah. dont you understand? she is doing this intentionally so you miss her. you have in to her $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ appettite. braddah the only person who can rid her out of your heart is you. you and you only but we can support. if you dont listen you will learn and it will be harder later than it is now. dont see her again. dont call her. forget about her. regain your strength and have a resolve. she will contact you. watch. but forget about her. as hard as it is you have to listen braddah.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by m3a41617

Thank for all the bros reply. i just back from lunch time..
yes my problem is mentally and emotionally been screwed up.
i will listen to some of our bros advise.

Should be "I will listen to some of our bros ADVICE.".

"Advise" is a verb.