If you could turn back time, would you still get married?

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by cmelater

Even if they remember us, its only the assets. So, wth.


Cheers everyone. Be happy and play hard. Good days are not here forever. But, that inevitable moment will come someday. Marry for the right reason or get out for a better reason.

True...My kids knows I am very strong financially , whenever they need money or things they will just message me from overseas . Anyway they had migrated and we only meet once a year only. Loneliness is not important , I find that money is the only thing which I can trust when I turn old . In this modern world without it will be like a living hell even you have a partner...I plans to stay in a aged home where there are nurses and friends there and there is no fear of loneliness . Anyway I am in my early 40s .....

[sex crusader]

Married for 11 yrs and no regret at all! I counted myself lucky to have a wife that take care of me physically and emotionally! Got caught cheonging twice but end of the day she forgiven me! Man is always man ...I confessed! I am a repeat offender!

[cmelater]

Originally Posted by topcook1

True...My kids knows I am very strong financially , whenever they need money or things they will just message me from overseas . Anyway they had migrated and we only meet once a year only. Loneliness is not important , I find that money is the only thing which I can trust when I turn old . In this modern world without it will be like a living hell even you have a partner...I plans to stay in a aged home where there are nurses and friends there and there is no fear of loneliness . Anyway I am in my early 40s .....

Mum used to add these words "Only scared guy no money, not scared no gals." She used to tell me the same that a lot of people single and ageing, so no need scared about it. lol.

I'm in my mid 30s. Congrats, u r way ahead and out of the damned M.

Aged home not too bad. Some nurses and volunteers can be pretty too.

[Jevv]

Originally Posted by cmelater

Mum used to add these words "Only scared guy no money, not scared no gals." She used to tell me the same that a lot of people single and ageing, so no need scared about it. lol.

I'm in my mid 30s. Congrats, u r way ahead and out of the damned M.

Aged home not too bad. Some nurses and volunteers can be pretty too.

wat ur mum said its true...i have to agree

To me I feel...the pride a man can have is not how many girls he have bedded or his many many achievements (in school or at work) in life, its having enough money to see him thru his daily life..no financial burdens which is

[cmelater]

Originally Posted by Jevv

wat ur mum said its true...i have to agree

To me I feel...the pride a man can have is not how many girls he have bedded or his many many achievements (in school or at work) in life, its having enough money to see him thru his daily life..no financial burdens which is

But, to learn all these, I think we all knew, probably at some point in time. The problem is that man wont learn until kena whack by..... woman's charter.

Even my kaki (coming to 60) driving a cab (last time high flyer during the old Haw Par days), he shared "if little bro dun stand, that's the end to man." lol.

[Captainoceania77]

Originally Posted by sex crusader

Married for 11 yrs and no regret at all! I counted myself lucky to have a wife that take care of me physically and emotionally! Got caught cheonging twice but end of the day she forgiven me! Man is always man ...I confessed! I am a repeat offender!

Hahahaa.....still early lar. Be prepare one day when you wakes up u find your ku ku jiao feed the dog downstairs.

[MoJoe313]

Originally Posted by topcook1

True...My kids knows I am very strong financially , whenever they need money or things they will just message me from overseas . Anyway they had migrated and we only meet once a year only. Loneliness is not important , I find that money is the only thing which I can trust when I turn old . In this modern world without it will be like a living hell even you have a partner...I plans to stay in a aged home where there are nurses and friends there and there is no fear of loneliness . Anyway I am in my early 40s .....

This is so sad. Money is not everything, bro. But I can understand your view after being divorced. You mentioned financially strong twice. May I know what that means? Must have how much in the bank account?

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

This is so sad. Money is not everything, bro. But I can understand your view after being divorced. You mentioned financially strong twice. May I know what that means? Must have how much in the bank account?

Meaning I have no debt .......no burden...financial freedom... ample money for retirement ...No required amount in the bank accounts....

[MoJoe313]

Originally Posted by topcook1

Meaning I have no debt .......no burden...financial freedom... ample money for retirement ...No required amount in the bank accounts....

Thanks bro. I am early 40s too. Have no debt. Haven't turf out kids. So got burden. Yet I never felt financially strong so I am curious. What does financial freedom and ample money for retirement mean?

Does it mean one has an income generating method, such that it last a lifetime like owning an asset? Or just ample cash reserves? Financially freedom means one still have to work?

Sorry, haven't been single for a long time so forgot that solo me-oh feeling.....

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

Thanks bro. I am early 40s too. Have no debt. Haven't turf out kids. So got burden. Yet I never felt financially strong so I am curious. What does financial freedom and ample money for retirement mean?

Does it mean one has an income generating method, such that it last a lifetime like owning an asset? Or just ample cash reserves? Financially freedom means one still have to work?

Sorry, haven't been single for a long time so forgot that solo me-oh feeling.....

I still have to work but without much stress about losing my job....well I have rental collection from my house , a FD interest ...driving part time taxi during weekends ...Just feel happy nowadays coz no more emotional stress and nobody to be accountable except being filial to my parents. This is my interpretation , different people has its interpretation too..

[cmelater]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

This is so sad. Money is not everything, bro. But I can understand your view after being divorced. You mentioned financially strong twice. May I know what that means? Must have how much in the bank account?

Bro,

Its as much as is required to upkeep your personal lifestyle.... need not be some insane sum. It varies.

[cmelater]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

Thanks bro. I am early 40s too. Have no debt. Haven't turf out kids. So got burden. Yet I never felt financially strong so I am curious. What does financial freedom and ample money for retirement mean?

Does it mean one has an income generating method, such that it last a lifetime like owning an asset? Or just ample cash reserves? Financially freedom means one still have to work?

Sorry, haven't been single for a long time so forgot that solo me-oh feeling.....

I also feel damn financial weak. After coughing much money for house/ shop and whatever whatever for the family, I have not even 500 bucks in my own account. :|

Marriage drains the life out of man. sigh.....

[surbana]

Originally Posted by cmelater

I also feel damn financial weak. After coughing much money for house/ shop and whatever whatever for the family, I have not even 500 bucks in my own account. :|

Marriage drains the life out of man. sigh.....

You can ask your spouse to helps you too. Share the burden together.

[YamEater]

No, I realised im not suited for marriage life

[surbana]

Originally Posted by YamEater

No, I realised im not suited for marriage life

Why????U know yourself very well?