If you could turn back time, would you still get married?

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[wittyman]

Originally Posted by Bukit Mewah

Sounds bad....hope u are alright bro. Marriage is just a bad investment.

agree, and it is the waste of time and money

[wittyman]

Originally Posted by HCKing

should set a time frame of maybe 10 yrs. i bet the answer will be no for many.

hehe we should change it to 10years renewable marriage cert

[cmelater]

Originally Posted by wittyman

hehe we should change it to 10years renewable marriage cert

Non renewal rates would be staggering and soon the country will become an oversized old aged home. Then again, i was talking with my friend. There is so little incentive to remain married. Aside from having children and companionship, there is a lot to give up. Whether venture seems "worthwhile" depends on the other person and if the "sacrifice" of "self" is sensible.

Then one day, a mother in law told her newly minted son in law that he and his wife will eventually be expected to care for everyone else within the wife's family. And that son in law must have kids.

The extent of "sacrifice" is not small by any extent. Too much is at stake just over that piece of paper. Given how limited our lives are, do we live for obligations or ourselves? No clear answer at all. Even warren buffet end up with another 2nd wife.

[Sapsinmike]

If I could turn back the time.... I don't want to get married....
I'm a loser.... Ruin my two shops... Due to my horniness.... Sigh.....

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[hijav]

Originally Posted by cmelater

This wasnt new to me. To know a person, its important to know her surrounding family, friends and et etc kaki. Feathers of a bird flock together. If you want to find a swan, you have to look for that gathering of swans. If you want to find a hungry, look for that pack of wolves on the hunt. If u wan a cheongster gf, go to a club or nite spot.

True and well said. Happened to me with my ex

[Captainoceania77]

So many divorce nowadays....


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